I am not talking about that extrovert at the party who demands the attention of the room. However, I am talking about that person who you often find yourself easily, gravitating towards.
That person that makes you feel safe and glad to be around. Rays pull you in with every word, and make you feel warm in your heart. Cared for. As a result, something about them is calming, and makes you feel like you were meant to know them. You were meant to hang on to them. All my life I have met these people at different stages of my life.
Each time they leave me more and more amazed. I found myself wanting desperately to be close to them — but above all, be like them. Rays are genuine. They stay true to their feelings and share with you how they truly are. Oftentimes, people might have a bad day or are moody and lash out while Rays accept how they are feeling, and they may let you in and tell you about what is going on — OR they choose not to, and decide to just be.
They only share with you. Rad, MA, PsyD, suggests you write your feelings down, pray or meditate, or begin to manage your thoughts. She notes, "If for no other reason than for yourself, forgive to untether yourself from the negative experiences of the past.
Take time to meditate, and give thanks for the wisdom and knowledge gained from your suffering. Practice the mantra, 'I forgive you and I release you. Be Honest and Direct How would you feel if a loved one or business partner lied to you? Chances are you would see that as a violation of your trust. If you want to be a better person in either your personal or professional life, you should always tell the truth and state as clearly as possible what you are trying to convey.
Learn to articulate your thoughts, feelings, and ideas in an open and honest manner. Be Helpful Whether giving up your seat to an elderly person on the subway, assisting a co-worker on a project, or carrying in the groceries when your spouse comes back from the store, being helpful is one of the easiest and most effective ways to practice becoming a better person. I find that the more I help others, the better I feel about myself and everyone around me.
Listen to Others As Jeet Banerjee notes on Lifehack, "listening to people and giving everyone a voice is one of the greatest things you can do. Being a good listener can change your life in a positive manner.
Act Locally It may not seem like a big deal, but supporting a local cause, donating clothes, or buying from local farmers' markets or businesses are simple ways you can help your specific region. You may not be able to save the world, but you very well could make a difference in your neck of the woods. Get to know and care about your community.
Always Be Polite How much effort does it take to say, "Thank you," or to hold the elevator door open for someone? Not much at all.
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I totally agree with you that commitment is essential. For me, passion comprehends commitment, but that viewpoint might be somewhat subjective. Passion and alignment engender commitment. All these things really matter.
Do not change yourself for others. Success is when you value or look back at your life at the end and feel proud of what you have done and the way you are. These are powerful attributes of a society that desires to build peace on earth, goodwill, individual birthrights, civil rights, freedom of thought, opinion, thinking, dreaming, critically analyzing, constructing their own theories and opinions, expressing and debating those ideas in the open so all will know; security from others with other ideas, opinions, beliefs, theories, goals, missions, so everyone can pursue their own path to their own destiny, to live long, prosper, and pursue happiness.
Support in maintaining these behaviors will also assist in guaranteeing that everyone will work diligently, maintaining and protecting our mutual home and equilibrium for future generations of all earthlings, not just people!
Really good. Helped me a lot to get back on track, but giving more excitement than I had before experienced. In one word, upgraded me in a different manner. A person must not be hot tempered to be a good human. He must be patient and respectful to the elders and seniors. Possession of these qualities is equally required for the conscious parent.
This makes the learning process much easier for children when their teachers and others with whom they come in contact try to enhance these qualities. This is one reason why being a parent is such a huge responsibility. After all, parents are the leaders of a family. Jesse James Garrett is merely channeling a previous genius.
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